My writings

 Last week, I was just sitting by myself, and my thoughts lingered upon a certain topic. So, I'm at the age where I find romantic relationships interesting and see them blossom all around me. Some blossom, some wither away and some try to blossom through the mushroom like bacteria clinging to the stems. All in all, it's always a beautiful sight to watch. Today, let me give you some insights of a working happy relationship. My forte neither lies in relationships nor in giving advice, but it leans towards observations. So I'll speak from observation. Why do we wish to be with someone ? I've felt this need and pondered upon this question countless times. Is it to feel less lonely ? Is it to be able to share your life with another human ? Is it to feel connected ? Is it because we need emotional, mental and physical security ? Is it a need for physical intimacy ? I think it's all of this and so much more. I'll write what I've observed from my conversations with

  Hey Samantha,                            How're you doing ? It's been a while since you went off. Oh, by the way, my book came out 2 weeks ago. It's gained some critical acclaim. It's all thanks to you for reading, combining, compiling and sending the letters to the editor. It was a really nice thing to do.                            Anyway, I wrote Catherine a letter after you went off. Apologized to her for the pain we caused each other among other things. We're divorced but not mad anymore but we're friends. You know, before you, I never could understand why Catherine was always so mad at me. But I think I do now. The more you do things for someone, the more you get involved. I did stuff for her, tried to uplift her out of her childhood insecurity of never being enough, just let her try and appreciate her own stuff. But I guess we grew apart together and I think I kept myself from her and isolated her within the relationship. That must've been hard on h